I'm very familiar with the feeling that comes from growing plants with great intentions to do things properly, only to find that circumstances lead to neglect. Often, the plants surprise me by responding well anyway.
Case in point: the paw paw seeds I planted in pots last autumn and then promptly and totally ignored through drought, squirrels and every other hardship thrown their way.
Last week, after 10 months of neglect, I happened to notice that not only had the seeds sprouted, but the young paw paws were flourishing.
Care is always best, but it's good to know that sometimes the urge to grow is unstoppable.